THIS IS THE BEST WAY TO MAKE HIM/HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU | LOVE

5 LANGUAGE OF LOVE FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE

1. What happens to love after marriage or after sex in a relationship?
2. ‎How do you keep the love tank full?
3. ‎Do you know you can make someone fall in love with you?
Before you can answer those questions, you need to know your the LOVE LANGUAGE of both your own self and that of your partner. What do you think or feel when you buy her a gift and she just say THANK YOU with no affections? Please don't get her wrong, she likes the gift you got for her but you are not saying/doing her LOVE LANGUAGE. Her LOVE LANGUAGE might be a quality time so if you buy her the whole world without spending some time with her, you will make her love tank empty.

As human being we can generally categorize the LOVE LANGUAGE into 5

#1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
#2. QUALITY TIME
#3. RECEIVING GIFT
#4. ACT OF SERVICE
#5. PHYSICAL TOUCH


1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
Someone once said " I can live for two months on a good compliment" which means the person needs just six(6) compliments a year to make or keep his emotional LOVE TANK leveled.

WHAT IS WORDS OF AFFIRMATION?
Just Simple, appreciating your spouse with your words e.g "Thank you baby for letting me into your life", "you look good on that dresses",... You just need to keep appreciating your spouse Strength ( what he/she is good at) and when appreciating him/her please be sincere about it, mean what you say because our spouses will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice and not words we use


Words of affirmation can't be done without our humble words. Don't place a demand rather MAKE A REQUEST e.g " I would love it  if you pick my calls when next I call", " What do you think if you have this hairstyle​? He/she is your partner not a child, ask politely... Words of affirmation works like magic...
However most of us are not moved by words of affirmation not really because they are bad but because it's not their LOVE LANGUAGE, just study the person you are dealing with, find her LOVE LANGUAGE,... Haven't you see a relationship where by you think/feel like what is she still doing in that relationship? She is doing nothing folk, just that the guy discover her LOVE LANGUAGE and now she can't go...
Use your words today, appreciate and be grateful for what/who you have...

To be continued

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